for your consideration, a list

I’ll add it to the list of things I’m not supposed to know
That anger between your brows
That this is no friendly competition
That you do care who wins

You

The list of things you shouldn’t say:

  1. I’m not interested
    Is to unkind to the man
    Who has made no effort to see beyond
    Your beautiful face
    It’s better to lie
    “I have a boyfriend”
    “I’m just not in the right place”
  2. You’re wrong
    Is unacceptable
    Just nod and smile
    As a he makes a joke
    At the expense of another
  3. No thanks
    Wounds his pride
    Because he’s only trying to help
    Who are you to question
    How kind he is
    How understanding
    How much you really his need help
  4. Fuck off
    is too mean to say to a man
    Who harasses you on the subway
    Who are you
    To stand up for yourself

Who are you
To say how you feel

Just add it to the list

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